The childhood is fun, teens pass off dealing with your uncontrolling hormonal driven emotions and there you land from that mind racking wagon into now a deadly roller coaster ride, to experience the most CHAOS-LADEN age of your life!!
I can understand as I am myself in my early 20's. It really feels like "
WTF!!" at times, not comprehending of what is actually happening and why the hell on earth is it happening!!
We keep juggling between our career, our relationships, our adulthood, our sudden taxed responsibilities, the mind-racking pressure to get settled in life, handling the mood swings and what not, making a complete nut head of yourself!! Phew!!
20 Things those hail at you in your 20s are:
There are many chance of you being lonely either due to your relocation or moving to a new place. However, it is mostly short lived.
Doing a job from 9 to 6, or preparing for some competitive exam or both, slogging yourself through the entire day and at night the creeping of the thoughts that what the hell is happening!! This is not what I wanted!! What next?? What if not??
This is one of the most traumatic issue of all at this age, leading to emotional and mental break down and what not!! It throws you in deep s*it, if not handled with caution.
Your old, school, college and hostel friends, all change including you yourself. The equation doesn't remain the same it was before among all of you. Many friends are lost in the way! You can do nothing but move on!
Everybody behaves like a complete d**k at times, being angry, rude, selfish, irritated and what not! Hardly any good friends are encountered on the way!
Well, this is the most common phenomena, as you are never sure sometimes what you want to do. In the college days you will always desire for the job you imagined, sadly post college, you will end up nothing like you imagined. Alas!!
Well no more will you be getting a paycheck from your till now bank accounts i.e. parents. Juggling between managing your expenses from your income including the rent, partying, day out, shopping, gobbling etc is a huge turn off.
- MAKING NEW FRIENDS HARDSHIPS:
Making good new friends is always a pain as everyone is busy chasing the rat race and hence, lack time, which is the most essential thing to forge any relationship!
During your endless miserable juggling to manage your expenses, you will sometimes feel that money does buy happiness.
Since, it's you taking care of your never ceasing expense, you will always find yourself in debt!!
As the reality of the world changes everyone, slowly the "is my friend" will change to "was my friend"! Sad but true!
In your college, you had your friends to carry you into the room in case you blacked out, but now you are all alone in a strange city! It is a great risk and hence, a big no!
With your hectic lifestyle, you cannot keep gobbling up anything like you would before. You really have to take care of your health and diet else, be ready for those extra pounds oozing out of your body from here and there.
You have to leave the old college's lazy, carefree lifestyle when you are in your 20s, as this age demands just the opposite of what it has been in the graduation and remember it's never too late to reinvent yourself.
- BARREN SPELLS ALL AROUND:
In college meeting the people was very easy as all you had to do was just go to some party. But post college, even if you are in big cities, yet finding the one you intimately want to pursue is a mere dream! If you are lucky, you might get one!
In the college, the hangovers lasted till you wake up, freshen up and eat something, but in real life, congratulations, you have to live with it for almost 24 hours, being indulged in your work at office. God bless you!!
Well, no more snoozing of the alarms, bunking, taking leaves etc. Welcome to the real world of discipline, punctuality and shit load of everlasting work!
Cried for those extra marks in the school and college? Well then there's a news that it's just treated as a sheer piece of paper. Only your past experiences and your personality counts later on!!
Welcome to the 20s dating complicacies, where you will completely be muddled of what the hell is your dating status! Are you single? Are you dating? Is it just friends with benefits? Is it a casual hook up? Are we just meeting? Are you dating both of them at a time? You like him but you love the other? I mean WTF is happening!!
- YOUR MOTIVES,PARENTS "NO":
Not all the parents are supportive towards their children in their 20s. Some things they want their way, some things are out of their understanding and sometimes they are actually right!
Well, just get up, tie your shoe laces, drink coffee and deal with it, as this is what this age demands!!
